Men are so easy to get along with! Girls are the problem. See girls do thing like talk about you via text message while your in the same room, but don't say a word to you. They give you that god awful vibe that their talking shit, and of course you know that its about you because 1) they won't look you in the eye. 2) They'll start giving you dirty looks. 3) They'll laughing and when you ask why they say "nothing". 4) They aren't messaging you.
This is why I prefer to stay around women. At least if they have a problem with me they say it to my face! The two "girls" I'm talking about both either have to be the center of attention, or have to tearing someone down in order to make themselves feel better. They tried to get me to buy into their bullshit. I wasn't doing it! This is how it started
Me: Wow Sara! You've lost alot of weight! That's awesome!
Sara: You don't even know.
Me: Well you look great.
Sara: At least I can see my toes now. (the way she said this she was trying to let me know just how fat I am)
Junell walks over
Junell: Me too! (she leans forward a bit) I can see my toes. Then she stares at me. At least my belly has gone down a bit from being pregnant.
(at this point I just look at them both thinking 'you guys can't be serious')
Me: Hey Sara, would you like some of you old skirts back? I'm sure that they would fit you! Nothing fits me right since I had my son.
(before I go any further, Junell has a 4 month old daughter and Sara has never had a kid)
Sara: Yeah! That would be great. I could use them now that I have lost so much. I almost weighed 300 pounds, but now I don't have that problem.
Me: Okay. I'll dig them out
(I dropped the subject)
Sara: Junell read your phone.
Junell grabs phone
They both stop looking at me.
Sara: Glenn read this.
Neither of them show me.
They're supposed to be my friends. Obviously these are just girls and that is why I don't keep girls as friends. If you have a problem with me speak up.
Through out the time I spent at these 'friends' house I offered for sara to get hugs or hold jadyn. She flat out refused. She thinks that I slept with her ex and that its his son. Which it is not. I am not denying that I slept with her ex, but they weren't together at the time and I wasn't with my son's father. I didn't get pregnant by her ex. Nor do I talk to her ex anymore. I could careless. To be honest, the only reason I hang out with these two bitches is because I care about their kids. (Check out Caring for kids blog for more info on that)
But anyways, now everyone knows my answer to why I don't have many girl friends. Its because I don't like being treated like that!