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I don't want to be in Kansas anymore.

I seriously can't believe my son is already two months! He is so smiley all the time! I recently changed to more fruits and vegetables and he seems to like it much better! Baby carrots have become my favorite snack! He almost sounds like he says hi when he sees me in the morning and then MOM when he's hungry and I love you at night. Of course I know right now he's cooing. He sings too! lol. I know that my son is amazing. and a lot like me. He loves Nightmare Before Christmas! He smiles and giggles (kinda) at Jack Skellington! I am so excited for me and him. We'll be leaving for Nebraska at the end of Jan, beginning of February. However, I am really worried about his daddy. It seems like he isn't well bonded with our son and it worries me because he barely holds him, plays with him, or does anything else. I have this gut wrenching feeling that we leave for Nebraska and he never will. I mean he seems to be caught up here. I don't want to be here in Kansas anymore. UGH! What should I do?

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Comment by triciaphalen on December 26, 2012 at 1:18pm: It's not either of us yelling. It's his family that we live with. His mother and 2 sisters are constantly yelling. The fight verbally constantly, they refuse to clean, and when they do clean they scream and bitch at each other the entire time. I have tried to ask them to stop (they continue yelling), I've asked them to leave the room (they continue yelling in the same room), I've even left the room with him and they get louder! I am fed up with the disrespect of each other, of me and of my LO. That's the reason behind moving. That and they treat me like a slave! If I don't do anything, nothing ever gets done and then I get to hear about how if they lived without us the house would be clean. I seriously want to look at them and say, If it weren't for me your house would be overrun with animal feces, cockroaches, and everything would be dirty, there would be no food and you would all tear eachother's heads off! I'm sorry for venting like that but his family is awful. I don't want my son growing up thinking this is okay, because it isn't. I want a healthy home, and I know that is with my family in Nebraska. They are angels compared to these people I swear.

Comment by Amanda on December 26, 2012 at 11:00am: Familial/emotional support is priceless.

Is the yelling from him? You probably already know this but babies will pick up whatever habits you display. If you and he are yelling, then your LO will think that is how communication works (even though it doesn't work to communicate that way).

Comment by triciaphalen on December 26, 2012 at 12:01am: He wants to move to, at least he says so. He would be able to work there, as will I, I don't have a job lined up there but my family is there for me and living here is like living at a rock concert. All the yelling has me and my LO stressed out. I just don't understand what's up with him.

Comment by Amanda on December 25, 2012 at 8:51pm: Why the move to Nebraska? Do you have a job lined up there? Family? Would he be able to work there? Has he ever mentioned how he feels about Nebraska or Kansas?