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HAPPINESS IN LIFE

MY NAME IS KARY AND I AM FROM HAITI. I DIDN'T HAVE A HAPPY CHILDHOOD BUT RIGHT NOW I AM ABOUT TO LIVE ONE.I HAVE MY BABY IN DECEMBER 31, AND I ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE MY FIRST BABY IN THAT DATE. I GUESS I AM LUCKY AS CRESUS, SO AT THAT MOMENT I SAW HIM ALL MY ANXIETY WENT AWAY. I COULD SEE THE LOVE, THE HOPE IN HIS EYES, THEN I BEGIN TO ADORE HIM.

THE POINT THAT SOMETIMES PEOPLE THINK THAT HAVING A BABY IS A BIG MISTAKE BUT IT IS NOT. I KNOW HAVING A BABY SO YOUNG CAN GUIDE YOUR LIFE TO A WHOLE NEW MYSTERIOUS ADVENTURE, BUT YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE RISK IN ORDER TO CHALLENGE YOUR FEAR, AND YOUR LIFE. I KNOW SOME PEOPLE WHO WANT TO HAVE KIDS AND I KNOW SOME WHO DON'T, BUT WHY THERE IS SO MUCH OPPOSITE THINKING ABOUT HAVING A BABY?

BELIEVE ME I LIVED THOSE EXPERIENCE WHERE I WAS ALONE WHILE BEING PREGNANT. MY BOY FRIEND WAS THERE FINANCIALLY BUT I DID NOT HAVE ANY FRIEND TO CRY ON THEIR SHOULDERS WHEN MY FAMILY WHERE AGAINST ME.

BE YOUR OWN MENTOR OF YOUR LIFE AND TAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS. SOMETIMES ADVISES IS GOOD BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE ONE TO MAKE A CHOICE. MY CHOICE WAS TO KEEP MY BABY AND IT WAS THE HAPPIEST DECISIONS I EVER MADE,

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Comment by ravenwolf837 on August 27, 2012 at 4:55pm: Well said kary. I think having a baby is the most rewarding experience there is. Keep up the good work mamma your doing a great job!

Comment by HEAVENLY on August 26, 2012 at 1:19am: its funny how things goes in your way, I live with my mom but she expect a lot from me but my only concerns are my baby and school. I give my baby the attention he needs and he knows that i will always be there for him even thought he is only 7months. when i look at him it seems that my love for him has no limit. I remark that babies now know their mother by the way she take care of them. my baby always cries when he doesn't see me and always want to sleep by my side before I put him in his crib.

having a baby didn't ruin my life but it gives me happiness.