I have 2 children with my ex-boyfriend of 10 years. I recently had a baby with my current boyfriend. He is a first time dad and doesn't have the patience I need him to have when it comes to my oldest 2 children. I want to make sure that all of my kids feel like we're a family and no one ever feels like an outsider. I've tried talking to him about this but he just doesn't seem to understand. Any suggestions?