Well, I felt like that when I was pregnant. I t could be a little stressful when u think your mate isnt that sexually attracted to you anymore. But, if he keeps saying your the crazy one but still nothing sexual has happened, then I think its a little more than u being crazy, he may b doing something on the side, but something is diff wrong. Mayb you can try to spice it up a little for him. go get something nice to wear for him one night when u put the kids to bed.. or either try to find a sitter and u plan a night with him and see how that works out..if it doesnt then something more is happening then what he is telling you, nxt step would b a counselor..but try the spice up first and then go to the next phase
I agree with everyone else. I would try to spice it up first. If I was you I would send the kids to a sitter before he got home from work and make the mood. Have low light, maybe candles, and either dress really sexy or just be plain naked waiting for him when he gets there. If this doesn't work something is definitely wrong.
Is he battling depression possibly? Print out an online test for depression and make him answer it honestly. Low to no drive and the tiredness are the top 2 detectors for it. My husband battles with depression, although I do not understand it and why he has it, medication helps him. He is back to normal now.
I've been going through the same thing and we only have one child. I've tried talking to him, explaining how I feel, asking him what he needs me to do to make it better. His reply is always the same, he's tired. I'm in decent shape and dress nicely, my hair and makeup is always done. I wonder if it's me and ask him what I can do to change. I've changed alot of things already. I'm at the end of my rope. Sometimes I think he would be just fine if we never had sex again. Hope it works out for you.