I have been and it hit me when my bugaboo was 4 months old. It's been weird and not the typical downs. It is more the overwhelmingness of it all. That and hubby was letting everything continue to be "women's" work. It started to show in my work at the office and our relationship. The spontaneous outbursts of crying were a lot to deal with 4 months into having a kid. I have started talking with someone and the crying has gone down a lot. I also took a picture frame and made a print out of "I love you because" and then use a dry erase marker on the glass to write something new. It really helps me to relight the love and turn on to my hubby and it shows him that something as small as emptying the dishwasher means so much to me. I think in the past month we have grown and become a stronger couple because of this.
i am....been that way for a month, and the fact that my baby's dad has 'fallen outta love' with me doesnt help....so idk if i'll ever bounce back